You imagined family life feeling warm, connected, and fun.  
You imagined siblings who played together, and had each other’s backs. 

Instead, your days are filled with arguing, name-calling, tattling, pushing boundaries and constant refereeing. 

You find yourself shouting things you never planned to say. 

“Will you just STOP.” 
“I don’t care, just eave each other alone.” 
“For goodness sake, just be kind.” 

And afterwards, the guilt hits. 

Because you care deeply about your children. 
And you worry about what all the yelling and fighting is doing to them, and to your relationship with them. 

If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone and you’re not doing anything wrong. 
You’re raising siblings without being given the tools you need. 

One of the biggest misunderstandings parents carry is this belief that sibling conflict is a behaviour problem. 

That if we could just stop the fighting, everything would feel better. 

But sibling relationships aren’t really about the outer behaviour. 
 
They’re about what’s happening underneath:  

Their sense of safety and security within the family, their sense of belonging and ability to regulate big emotions. Sibling dynamics are also where kids being to build social skills and shape their identity: who they are, and how they’re seen.  

What looks like rivalry or not sharing, on the surface is often a child asking, 
“Where do I fit here?” 
“Am I safe?” 
“Do I matter?” 

When we respond without understanding what sits underneath, we accidentally add pressure, fear or disconnection. Not because we don’t care, but because no one taught us another way. 

This course exists to change that.

You love your children deeply, and yet parenting them together feels far harder than you expected. 

If any of this sounds familiar, you’re in the right place:

• You’re raising more than one child and the tension between them leaves you drained before the day has even properly begun. 
• You care deeply about their relationship and worry about what all this fighting might mean for their future bond. 
• You find yourself stepping in constantly, taking sides or shutting things down because in the moment, you do not know what else to do. 
• You notice jealousy, rivalry or one child being labelled the “difficult one”, and it sits heavily with you. 
• You long for a calmer home, but you do not want to force behaviour or ignore emotions to get there. 
• You want support that fits real life, not advice that only works when everyone is already calm. 

This course was created for parents exactly like YOU. 

This is a self-paced course made up of short, focused modules you can watch with your partner, listen to on-the-go, or read in small pockets of time. 

You’ll learn: 

✔️ What sibling conflict is really about, beyond the behaviour 
✔️ Why fairness often creates more tension rather than less 
✔️ How your own childhood experiences shape your reactions 
✔️How to respond without taking sides or withdrawing 
✔️What to do when one child dominates or overwhelms the other 
✔️How to support jealousy, rivalry and competitiveness safely 
✔️Why one-to-one time matters more than togetherness 
✔️How to intervene in ways that protect emotional safety 
✔️How to stop carrying the role of referee all day long 
✔️How to stay regulated so you do not add fuel when things are already heated 

Every strategy is rooted in attachment, emotional regulation and real family dynamics. 

❌No punishment or reward charts. 
❌No shame. 
❌No unrealistic expectations. 

When you join, you get lifetime access to the full course, so you can return to it as your children grow and sibling dynamics shift. You do not need to rush through it or “get it right” first time. 

This course gives you practical and reflective evidence-based support you can come back to whenever you need it. 

About Jade:

Dr. Jade Redfern is a Clinical Psychologist and mum of three.

Her work bridges science and real life, helping parents respond to their child’s big feelings without yelling, bribing, or shutting down their emotions.

Even with years of professional training, Jade too found becoming a parent deeply triggering. Parents are under so much pressure to get everything right.

Developing emotion regulation on a nervous system level - not just holding it together - means you can understand what’s beneath the surface and respond with compassion, for yourself and your kids.

Her approach blends attachment and neuroscience, with practical, therapeutic, nervous system regulation tools, and lived parenting experience to support growth, connection, and emotional resilience for the whole family.

This is not about perfect parenting. It’s about showing up with compassion, clarity, and confidence - even in the messy moments.